Improve Your Relationship Through Energy Cords
Have you ever been in a relationship and wanted to make things better between you both? Sometimes we can’t always choose to leave and cut cords, but are forced to be around another person. This is especially true for family members that you can’t just make disappear into thin air (that’ a joke!).
In this article, I’m going to discuss the process for strengthening the cords instead of removing and cutting.
At the very core of everything is energy. It is important to understand that we are all energy from every physical object, person and even our thoughts. Everything is energy. Everything has a specific vibration. We have energetic imprints on everything and this includes our relationships.
As mentioned before in this post, we have thousands of energy cords connecting us to specific people, places, times and events. Each person that we have encounter has left some sort of energetic imprint in our field. These cords vary in strength, size and energy flow.
If you are in a relationship that you had a fall out, misunderstanding or are just trying to strengthen, you can do so by working on the energy cord that ties you both together.
I would like to highlight a very strong point here. The intent of why you want to strengthen this energy cord is really important. If you want to strengthen a relationship to “get a lover back” or out of desperation, I wouldn’t suggest using this technique. I have seen this technique backfire if your intent is other than for the highest good of both parties. If this is your case, perhaps learning your soul lesson for this relationship and thanking it for showing up would be a better technique.
But let’s say there’s a relationship that is craving for more love. Maybe this is your partner and you have been working 80 hour weeks and your relationship is less than stellar because of the lack of attention or maybe you just want to send your child extra love. You can strengthen your energy connection to them by clearing the energy cord and upgrading it so to speak.
I first used this technique with a daughter and her mother. There were a few fall outs in the family and the daughter wanted to give the relationship another try. When I looked at the energetic imprint of both parties, the mother was unconsciously still holding onto feelings of resentment. Every time the daughter would reach out to the mother she could tell that something wasn’t right but couldn’t pin point it. We worked on strengthening the energy cord between them and the daughter saw a shift in the relationship.
Another client and I worked on improving the relationship between her and her son. In her role as a mother, she subconsciously had a fear of parenting and that she would fail. Because of this underlining fear, she ran away from parenting and never felt a true connection in her relationship. When she was ready to step up to the plate and improve her relationship she came to me. I looked into the energetic vibration and saw it was damaged and broken apart. For thirty days she did the following technique to strengthen their bond.
On a side note, having a strong cord with someone is a really neat experience. When cords are big and juicy, you can actually “ping’ the person wherever they are. One of my childhood best friends moved across the United States and over the years we talked less and less to each other. Through the strong energy cord we created years ago, when she thinks of me, I still get the message telepathically. Energy cords do not know distance!
You may also want to strengthen an energy cord between two parties just to do so. Maybe you have been in the same relationship with someone for years and you want to keep the energy smooth and clear between you both, you can use this technique for that too. If there are key players in your life that bring you love, send them love back!
My point with all these examples is: Whatever you focus on intensely, strengthens the energy cord to you so use it wisely.
Think of this technique as a tune-up to a relationship and proceed with many blessings and love!
TECHNIQUE:
- Clear your own energy first. This can be done through intention in a physical shower or a meditation of cleansing and clearing the chakras. You want to start as a clear channel.
- Visualize the person you want to strengthen the energy cord with.
- Locate the cord running between you and that person. (I find family members are mostly in the heart chakra)
- In a meditative state, visualize the cord becoming radiant, clear and filled with love.
I like to end by blessing them or wishing their spirit a good day. You can end in any way you feel is right to you. I had a persons spirit give me a high five before!
Run this technique whenever you feel you need a tune-up to your energy flow. Life isn’t perfect. We forgot sometimes about taking care of our loved ones, we neglect others needs, this is a way to show them that you are there and you still care.
CAN I MESS THIS TECHNIQUE UP?
Always remember your intention behind connecting. If your sending vibration is coming from a lower vibration of desperation or greed, you won’t achieve the results you are hoping and may even create something that you actually don’t want! If you are sending out pure love and light for the highest good of both parties and release the expectation of how you think the relationship should be, your results will be more organic and evolve.
HOW OFTEN SHOULD I USE THIS TECHNIQUE?
I like to use it as a tune up. Whenever I want to send love to another person that is connected to me, I do. There’s no set time frame.
HOW CAN I LEARN MORE ABOUT ENERGY CORDS?
A good portion of the Chakra Intuitive Practitioner Course is set up around reading energy cords. As a practitioner, this is a great tool to learn more about a client and help them on their life path. Anything and everything you want to know is stored in the chakras and I walk you through the process of retrieving that information.
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